Have you got bridesmaid gifts on your mind? Trying to work out the why’s, what’s and where’s and would love some help from us and a few of our Whitewed approved gift creators to help you to decipher just what to buy for your bridesmaid crew as a memento of your wedding... If this sounds like you, read on!
Your bridesmaids (for this part we'll exclude the littlest ones!) have been with you since the beginning. You're likely to have dragged them round the bridal boutiques, shared endless hours of DIY'ing homemade aspects of your wedding day together, they've helped you write hundreds of addresses on your invites and been the rock to go to when you have a bridal breakdown... these girls have been there through it all, and really do deserve to be thanked for it.
*Image Credit - Kimmy's Homemade Gifts
A bridesmaid gift isn't essential, but we're pretty sure it'll be highly appreciated. Giving a thank you gift to each of your bridal party is just one way of showing your gratitude and appreciation for everything they've done for you and the emotional support they've shown in the planning process - it can be quite the task you know!
The best gifts as with most gifts in life are the ones that you've put time, thought and energy into choosing or creating. It can be as simple as picking out the colours that you know they'll love most, finding a treat for them that you know they'd bounce with excitement over, purchasing personalised and bespoke items made just for them, or putting together a pamper hamper for them to enjoy - it doesn't have to be much, it just needs to be thoughtful.
Dependent on who your bridesmaids are, and importantly the ages of them, you may choose to give them all the same or to get something unique for each of them that they’ll appreciate. Let's be honest, a cute personalised cuddly toy may be perfect for the toddling flower girl but not so suitable for the maid of honour in her thirties!
*Image credit - Kimmy's Homemade Gifts
The choices for gifts are endless so we suggest before you even start shopping you set yourself a budget from your wedding funds, take time to think about exactly what you'd like to give them (will it be jewellery, pamper boxes for the getting ready or a personalised keep sake?) and when this is decided you can start shopping with a vision in mind. You'll want to make sure you start shopping for these several months before the big day to save any last minute stresses and to allow plenty of time for items that you may want personalised or created bespoke.
When should you give your gifts? This question doesn't have a straight answer, it really will vary on the gifts chosen and the recipient receiving. The most popular timings include 'in the morning', during speeches, or on the eve of your wedding if you're staying with your bridal party or having dinner together. Some even choose to give 'will you be my bridesmaid' gifts when asking the big question, usually a gift that can be used during the planning or for getting ready with on the wedding day!
You'll need to think about your gifts and decide when is best... Do you want them to wear it on your wedding day? If so, maybe the night before or morning prep may be the right timing. If it's a sentimental gift then you may choose for it to be given to them during the speeches when all of the thanks are shared. Don't forget to also think about transporting of the gifts, if you have a long drive or even a flight to contend with, then a glass gift is unlikely to be the best gift!
*Image Credit - UNA Prints
You've heard our thoughts on the what's, when's and why's when it comes to spoiling your bridesmaids, but we always think it's worth noting what the industry professionals are saying too! We've enlisted the help of UNA Prints and Kimmy's Homemade Gifts, two Whitewed approved wedding suppliers specialising in bespoke and personalised wedding gifts and accessories for your big day. Take a read of their thoughts, top tips, inspiration and advice to you when looking to purchase the perfect bridesmaids gifts.
What do you think is the best gift a bride can give, and when?
Kim -I would personally say a sentimental gift from our range such as a personalised photo frame. Which can be filled with a wedding photo and be used around any home to enjoy the memories of your wedding day.
Nisha -For us personally it’s the robes. Every woman will be able to relate when we say that there will be a perfect picture of you and the girls and you feel your arm looks to large, or your top looks inappropriate and then comes the awkward line… “please don’t use that picture”. Robes are the perfect way to avoid this, and with our premium quality robes you will feel comfortable all morning.
The wedding morning is the most ideal time to have the gifts distributed…at least amongst the stress none of the bridesmaid can forget theirs at home!
*Image Image Credit - Kimmy's Homemade Gifts
What products do you create as bridesmaids gifts?
Kim - Kimmy’s creates a wide range of bespoke gifts for bridesmaids from small singular items such as shot glasses, hangers, and candles. All the way up to full bridesmaid packages which can include a personalised box/bag full of personalised gifts with over 10 different options to choose from.
Nisha - We provide a wide range of gifts suitable for bridesmaid of all ages. Not all brides will have elder bridesmaids so it’s important to be as versatile as possible and ensure there is something for everyone. We have a variety of gifts included but not limited to Personalised robes, glasses, make up bags, water bottles, mirrors and gift bags!
Do you offer bridesmaid gift packages?
Kim - Yes, bridesmaid packages are available. Our bridesmaid packages are fully personalised to your requirements and can match all colour schemes. All wording and colours are handmade so every item we produce will match. Packages are available in personalised boxes or bags, as little or as much can be included in each package dependent on what your bridesmaid would appreciate. Personalised items that can be included - hangers - candles - make up bags - robes - pyjamas - slippers - t-shirt - sashes - bunny - teddy - frame - compact mirror - glasses.
Nisha - We offer packages for both the bridal party and grooms party but so far for 2019 our most popular package has been our personalised gift set which includes all of the following in your chosen colour; Personalised robe, slippers, hanger, glitter champagne flute and gift bag.
What’s the most popular item?
Kim - It’s very hard to choose just one item, it’s a hard tie between our personalised bunnies or robes. The bunnies are available in 5 different colours (white, pink, blue, brown & grey). Both ears have a gorgeous floral print which can both be personalised, the ideal gift for flower girls and bridesmaids. The personalised robes are available in over 15 different colours and range for age 2 up to size 28. Personalised with roles and names on the back.
Nisha - The most popular item which seem to be going out like
hot cakes is without a doubt our personalised glitter champagne flutes which
are available in any colour with their chosen roles. Who doesn’t love a little
bit of sparkle…especially in the most important day of their lives.
*Image Credit - Kimmy's Homemade Gifts
Set the scene for us, why is it a nice thing to do..?
Kim -Bridesmaid packages can be used to firstly ask your bridal party to be a part of your wedding day. Containing gifts that be used straight away or to be saved for the wedding day.
Morning of the wedding package - which includes a hanger - glass - robe and slippers. As you will be able to hang your beautiful bridesmaid dresses up to ensure they don’t get creased. The robes and slippers are perfect for getting ready, nice and light so you can get ready feeling comfortable and easily removed once your hair and make up is complete so you don’t have to worry about ruining your hair and make up. And then finally to raise a glass before the ceremony.
Or they are the perfect way to thank your bridesmaid within your speeches.
Nisha - Your wedding day is such an important day and the morning of is when the nerves really kick in. To have your close friends and family amongst you lightening the mood and creating some last memories of you as a Miss really does take the edge away. It’s a nice way for your bridesmaid to look and feel the part too. Alongside you, your bridesmaids have worked hard to make sure you have the perfect day, so this is your way of appreciating their efforts and their friendship.
*Image Credit - Kimmy's Homemade Gifts
Have you seen any trends on bridesmaid gifts
Kim - Items with lighter colours such as blush pink, champagne gold and silver within the summer months.
Items with darker colours such as burgundy, navy and red within the winter months.
Bridesmaid robes and pyjamas are popular all year around as they make it easier to get ready.
Smaller gifts are popular for the destination brides and grooms so they have room in there luggage to accommodate gifts.
Nisha - Rose gold this year has been so popular. It seems to be the
colour of 2019. With this in mind, we now offer rose gold robes which have bit
a great hit.* Image credit: UNA Prints
We hope the advice and ideas given from UNA Prints Prints, Kimmy's Homemade Gifts and The Whitewed Directory have been useful for all you brides looking to spoil your bridal tribe and thank them for all their efforts, friendship and support as they assist you on your wedding day journey.